Discreet dating sites are one of my favorite tools for finding new affair partners. They let you browse people seeking affairs near you, and unlike Tinder, you don’t have to worry about your spouse’s friend stumbling across your profile and raising hell.
If you’re still paranoid of getting caught by someone, the best affair websites let you blur your face so you can’t be identified. They also let you create profiles, send messages, chat, and do voice calls before meeting up in person.
Ashley Madison Review – Best Overall Affair Site?
The women (and men) here are more sex-focused than on other sites. Most of them are in their mid 30s to 40s, stuck in marriages they dislike, and looking for some extra passion. It’s also a free site for women, which keeps the ratio of men to women about equal compared other sites.
If you’re on this affair dating site, you are expected to keep a secret. This gives the site an “in-on-it” vibe, where everyone can already relate to each other. I think this feeling of ‘togetherness’ helps make affair websites work better than generic dating sites.
The site also has messaging, chat, and voice calling built in, so if you want you can escalate with someone before swapping numbers.
My Experience – I’ve met eleven women from Ashley Madison. Six of them turned into affair partners, and 1 has been the best affair of my life. She’s made it clear that her husband is also having affairs, so she has no guilt about ours. Ashley Madison made it easy to find people like her, and has become my go to affair site.
Adult Friend Finder Review – Discreet Adult Dating Site
AdultFriendFinder has the most users of any hookup site, so you can find many people looking for sex near you. It has chatting, voice calling, sex courses, video calling, and forums. It’s a great community for swingers and all things no strings attached dating. Most of the people are very open-minded and will be completely understanding of your desire to explore relationships outside of your current relationships.
Since it is a general adult dating site, you may want to be more careful with your identity. Try wearing a mask in your photo or not showing your entire face, you can also use a fake name. Anything to avoid being identified by friends, family, or acquaintances that might be on the site.
Webcams are a great way to safely scope people out, or get hesitant people to see you are trustworthy naviidte to website. The site’s forums and blogs are another way to see how active people are, what they like to talk about, and gauge their personality.
Victoria Milan Review – A New Twist On Affair Websites
Victoria Milan isn’t quite as old as other dating websites, but their customer service has helped bring in many new members.
They have features like chatting, voice calling, and messaging. You can see how close someone lives to you in miles (or KM) so you know if they will be easy to find.
However I did give this site only 2.5 stars out of 5. It just doesn’t have the same amount of users as the first two sites in our list. Maybe in the future I can give this site a higher rating if it becomes as busy as other adult dating sites for married people.
Gleeden Review – A So-So Dating Site For Married People
This is an affair site aimed at of all women staff. It was created in France and is one of the newest affair sites there is. The French vibe is very obvious on the app and 30% of the women using it are in France.